"why dont you just give him a chance"
idk because im not physically or mentally attracted to him and ‘but he likes you’ or ‘but hes really nice’ isnt going to change the fact that im not interested
Damn, I don’t think women know how much that really hurts
you know what else hurts?????????? getting abused for being a ‘bad person’ because you didnt want to date somebody that you werent interested in
You know what I NEVER see? ”Why don’t you just give her a chance?” Women are expected to be perfection at first sight or else they’re simply dismissed. No one’s saying “she’s geeky, but once you get to know her…” or “she’s shy, but once you get to know her…” or “she’s not conventionally attractive, but she grows on you…”
NOPE. There’s no cushion for women like that. Don’t even try to say there is. And in fiction the only time something like this comes close to happening is when the dowdy woman turns out to be secretly hot all along, or a dude has some magic spell put on him so he can see past the “ugly.”